This One Lesson Changed How I Cook Forever 👩‍🍳⏲️


Salt, Hands, and a Japanese Potato Salad

Hello Reader, It's Yukari!

Salt and your hands can change everything you cook.

(Stick around for Aric’s 1-minute chef’s tip!👨🏻‍🍳)

But first, I want to take you back to a little Japanese kitchen, where I learned the real magic of cooking…


“The Potato Salad That Changed My Perspective”


I visited Terumi and enjoyed her warm "Omotenashi" until I moved to the US.

One evening, she made classic Japanese potato salad.

I kept asking for more, and she’d laugh,

"You’re so silly to love something so simple!"

Her smile stuck with me. I wanted to be like her.

Someone who made others happy with simple things.

She became like a big sister to me.

When I asked for the recipe, she’d say,

"Let’s make it together!"

Something I’d never heard from my mom, or even my grandma.


But Terumi's lessons and our conversations were always like this. 

"How much mayo do you add?" 

"Oh, I don't know, until it all mixes well." 

Her recipe only made sense if you watched her. Everything was in her head, learned by doing.

Every time I visited her, I'd ask, "I made the potato salad, but it wasn't like yours. What did I do wrong?"

Her response was usually something like this. "Oh, I don't know, maybe you didn't cook the potatoes long enough?"


Those potato salad talks were more than cooking.

They were lessons in joy, patience, love, and the beauty of repetition.

My journey to perfect that salad continues, but it wasn’t a smooth highway. 


That part is coming next time. 🧡


Who showed you how to cook? Did the person have recipes written down, or was the person more like my friend, Terumi?

💌 Hit reply and tell me! Who first taught you how to cook?

I love to hear your stories! Really!


⏲️ The First Dinner of $100 Grocery Challenge

We challenged ourselves to prepare delicious meals (breakfast, lunch, and dinner) for the week with a budget of just $100 in groceries.

Our first dinner? A celebration meal of fresh-roasted chicken thighs from the whole chicken, chilled green beans, and pan-roasted potatoes. 🍽️

(You'll be surprised, our actual meal prep the next day took just a few minutes!)


📹 "Roasted Chicken with Chilled Green Beans, Pan Roasted Potatoes, and Chicken Au Jus"

Watch the whining Senna in the video at the end, it's adorable and hilarious! 🤣 🐶

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👨🏻‍🍳 Chef's Tip from Aric (1-minute win): Ditch the shaker. Use a salt dish.

A pinch from a small dish gives you control you’ll never get from a shaker.

Even coverage from above, faster adjustments while cooking, and the right crystals (kosher for cooking, flake for finishing).

Your hands are amazing. The more you do it, the more you remember the right amount of salt to use.

Calibrate once (see what your 3-finger pinch measures), then you can season by feel like a pro. 👨🏻‍🍳

No more measuring spoon. Less washing. 😎


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It’s officially soup season 🍂 and Aric’s chef tip will level up your taste game.

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Thanks again for building this with us.

We’re not perfect chefs. We’re just real people who love feeding others and figuring it out with you.

With flavor, love, and stainless steel tongs in one hand,

Yukari & Aric

(and Senna + Ka-En, snack ninja & firecracker in charge 🐱🐶)

Yukari Bianchi

Hi, I’m Yukari! My husband, Aric, a talented chef, and I are on a mission to bring people together through the magic of cooking. We want to build a virtual cooking community where we share budget-friendly meal prep tips, host fun challenges, and teach classes beyond recipes—we tell stories of love, life, and even the lessons we learn from our fur babies. Yes, our Bernese Mountain Dog, Senna, the Dish Pit Pup, and our Ginger cat, Ka-En, the Sous Chef Kitten, are part of the journey too! We believe food is more than just fuel—it’s about connection, culture, and creativity. If you enjoy heartwarming stories, engaging Q&As, and cooking made simple, we’d love to have you in our community.🔪🍲 Join us to cook, laugh, and share the love—one meal at a time.

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