🫣 Maybe You Don’t Hate That Vegetable After All


Hello Reader, It's Yukari!



Many of us don’t actually hate vegetables.

We hate the way they were cooked for us when we were kids.


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We recently made a video comparing frozen and fresh asparagus, and the comments stood out.

One person remembered only soggy, overcooked asparagus from childhood, while another grew up with canned asparagus.

And that makes sense.

One bad texture or smell, repeated enough times, can stay with you for years.

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My Cauliflower Journey

For me, that vegetable was cauliflower.

When I moved to the States from Japan, I didn’t know what cauliflower was, and I didn’t like it.

I think it was the look and texture that put me off.

Aric never forced me to eat it, but it was often on the table with other vegetables when his family got together.

Then one day, he pureed cauliflower into a simple soup with chicken stock, salt, and pepper.

It was creamy, gentle, and delicious.

I even ate more of it than Aric did. 😄

Looking back, I think a few things helped:


  1. He changed the texture.
    Pureed cauliflower was completely different from the raw version that originally put me off.
  2. He paired it with a familiar flavor.
    The chicken stock made it feel comforting and approachable.
  3. He didn’t pressure me.
    It was just there, and I chose to try it.

That part matters.

I gave myself permission to try it once, and if I still didn’t like it, so be it.

But the more I ate it, the more I liked it. 🧡

Later, Aric added small roasted cauliflower florets on top as garnish.

He just pan-roasted the florets with olive oil, salt, and pepper.

Again, it was so simple, yet delicious.

They were sweeter, nuttier, and just a little crisp, and I loved that contrast with the smooth soup.


I didn’t grow up with bad cauliflower memories.

It just felt unfamiliar to me at first.

But that experience taught me something.

Sometimes, we don’t hate the food itself.

We hate the way we first experienced it.

That’s one reason cooking for yourself can help so much.

Fresh cooking doesn’t have to mean harder.

Sometimes it just means finding the version that finally feels good to you.

You get more control.

You can:

  • Change the texture.
  • Choose a different cooking method.
  • Pair it with flavors you already enjoy.
  • Try it without pressure.

So if there’s a vegetable you’ve always disliked, maybe try it again in a completely different form.

Brussels sprouts can become sweeter and crispier when roasted.

Mushrooms can take on a whole new life when sautéed with garlic and butter. 🧈


Maybe you may not hate the vegetable after all.

You may just hate the way it was first cooked for you.


If your least favorite veggie is missing from the list, reply and let me know!

I’d love to hear which one it was! 👀



Thanks for being at our Kitchen Table, on this cozy little corner of the internet.

We appreciate you following along and for letting us share not just what we cook but why we cook. 🧡


With gratitude and friendship,

Aric & Yukari

🐱🐶 (Ka-En and Senna, who have nothing to do with cooking, but to eat. 😂)

P.S. Senna loves many vegetables, so we don't have to buy extra treats for her! 😂

The Kitchen Table with Aric and Yukari

Hi, I’m Yukari! I’m a home cook married to Aric, a talented chef, and together we share practical, encouraging kitchen content for people who want to cook more at home without feeling overwhelmed. We believe food is more than fuel. It can be comfort, connection, creativity, and a small way to care for yourself and the people you love. Here, you’ll find budget-friendly cooking ideas, meal prep help, relatable stories, and simple encouragement to help home cooking feel more possible in real life. And yes, you’ll also occasionally meet Senna, our Bernese Mountain Dog, and Ka-En, our ginger cat, who are very committed to supervising everything we cook. 🐶🐱 If you’re looking for cooking that feels more doable, cozy, and joyful, welcome.

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