Last year I asked how Marge did it. Now I know.


Hello Reader, It's Yukari!
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Some of you met Aric's mom, Marge, here last year.
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The woman who put a turkey in the oven and then took me shopping.

(If you're new: she was a force. She could cook, sew, garden, and tell the funniest stories, usually all at the same time.)
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And about the morning after my first Thanksgiving.


The soup she made from the bones, with dark meat and tiny acini di pepe.
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The little turkey sliders she set out during the football game.
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Salt, pepper, and mayonnaise.
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That's it.

The same turkey, three times.
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Three completely different meals.
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And she never once looked at a recipe.

I ended that letter with a question I couldn't answer:

"Where did she get the ideas, and how did she make it look so easy?"

For a long time I thought Marge just had more ideas than the rest of us.

Now I think she was asking a different question.

Not "What am I supposed to make?"

But "What can this turn into?"

If you read my Nabe story a couple of weeks ago, you've heard that question before.
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I learned it from missing home.
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Marge was the one who showed me it could be joyful.


What we've been learning from our Kitchen 911.

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This year, Aric and I started going into people's kitchens.
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With our new service, Kitchen 911.
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And we kept running into the same thing.

It usually wasn't that people couldn't cook.
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Most of them had a dish they were genuinely good at.
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So they made it again.
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And again.
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Until one day they just… stopped.
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Not because it got worse.
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Because they were tired of it.

Nobody ran out of food.
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They ran out of what else could this be?

And each time, what we needed was already sitting in their kitchen.

That's the Marge question. ​
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Not another recipe.
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​A second set of eyes on what you already have.
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But first, Thanksgiving.

Holiday Rescue: Sunday, November 22, 10:00 am Mountain Time. (12 pm Eastern Β· 9 am Pacific)

The Sunday before Thanksgiving.
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Online.
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About an hour.

We're starting with timing.
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One oven, six dishes, everything hot at the same moment.
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And this year, bring your Friday question too.
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The leftovers.
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The bones in the pot.
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The what do I do with all of this?

Marge would have loved that part. 🧑
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(Yes, it asks for your email again...It's how we know to send you the link.) ​
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​[Question for YOU today!] ​
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What happens to the leftovers at your house the day after?
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Hit reply and tell me.
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I read every single one, and I try my best to respond when I can, too!


For our Denver Friends!

If you'd like to see what Kitchen 911 looks like, it's all here.
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➑️ Kitchen 911 ⬅️


Thanks for being at our Kitchen Table on this cozy little corner of the internet.
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We appreciate you following along and letting us share not just what we cook but why we cook. 🧑
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With gratitude and friendship,

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Aric & Yukari
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🐱🐢(P.S. A friendly warning from our house: Senna recently stole one of our kitchen towels and turned it into confetti.😱Nothing got swallowed, thank goodness! but the towel did not survive. Ka-En watched the whole thing from a safe height and, as far as we can tell, enjoyed every minute. Kitchens get busy this month, so keep an eye on your four-legged helpers!🐾


The Kitchen Table with Aric and Yukari

Hi, I’m Yukari! I’m a home cook married to Aric, a talented chef, and together we share practical, encouraging kitchen content for people who want to cook more at home without feeling overwhelmed. We believe food is more than fuel. It can be comfort, connection, creativity, and a small way to care for yourself and the people you love. Here, you’ll find budget-friendly cooking ideas, meal prep help, relatable stories, and simple encouragement to help home cooking feel more possible in real life. And yes, you’ll also occasionally meet Senna, our Bernese Mountain Dog, and Ka-En, our ginger cat, who are very committed to supervising everything we cook. 🐢🐱 If you’re looking for cooking that feels more doable, cozy, and joyful, welcome.

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